Posts filed under ‘Conscious Websites’

Love this!!! – Designing for Generosity talk

I’m really enjoying this video and the website.  If you haven’t already discovered, I encourage you to visit it immediately and consider it as a primary source for quality, inspiring entertainment!  A great way to pass intervals of 20 min!

March 9, 2012 at 10:52 am Leave a comment

Before writing your “To Do List”, consider a “To Be List”

It never ceases to amaze me the variety of high quality self-help offerings available on the internet in increasing number.  It seems like I think of an idea, and one google search later I discover 5 other people have already had this idea and are capitalizing on it… or shall I say, offering their magnificence to the world.  I’m so touched by the people who have found a way to make a living by inspiring folks for free online and then producing a book from the results that I’m sure retails at $15 or less.  This is how we change the world, one blog at a time, while keeping our own necks swimmingly above water. is a great example of this.  During a recent coaching session, my client mentioned something her professor said to her.  He said something to the effect of, “My life became a lot easier once I got clear on my values and created a list of how I wanted to BE in the world.”  We both contemplated the potential power of a “To Be List”… after the call, I searched the web and found Lauren & James and their website, blog and book Your To Be List.  One of the things I like most about this website is the thought and effort put into creating motivational pieces with video, found in the About YTBL section of the website.  Just from watching the two videos I get an good idea of what they are suggesting and can move forward inspired and ready to make a significant shift in my life.

So far my To Be List has take two forms… a 12 Commandments type theme of non-negotiables and ideals I still haven’t achieved but know I will in time… and then a looser, cleaner form focused on feelings and needs… connecting with the present moment, recognizing what feelings and needs are alive and what desires I have from there… and then asking the question, “who do I need to BE right now to achieve my desired outcome?” similar to what is described on YTBL website.

I’m finding with my 12-Commandments-style list that there is a tricky balance between wanting to rise to the occasion and being discouraged, because I have so far to go until I live up to my high standards.  They sometimes feel like ‘shoulds’ instead of personal choices.  Maybe I should refer to them as the 12 suggestions, and that would lessen my resistance?  I’m not sure… but it does feel good to write down a list of who I would BE if I were perfect and could change direction on a dime.

Do you have a To Be List?  Share it here to inspire others! 🙂

February 18, 2011 at 7:04 pm 3 comments

BLISSfix loves

Check out the new wordle I just made at  This is a wordle of my intention for how I want to live my life.  You can copy and paste or write any text and have create you a beautiful synopsis of the essence of what was written, removing all the common words and making the remaing words larger or smaller based on the frequency of their use.  You can also enter a website or blog and it will generate a wordle of that.  I entered and I was surprised to see how many times I used the word “brown.”  Didn’t know I was such a big fan of brown. 🙂 offers about 20 fonts to choose from, and a variety of options for direction of words, layout, upper or lowercase, color and variation levels.  So go ahead, Wordle something for fun and post a link to your results in the comments!


February 12, 2011 at 7:42 pm Leave a comment

Thank you for

I am loving the tons of fun blogs I’m finding and I’m celebrating how they’ve created fun books from their blogs!  Here is one of them… check out… a very clever blog where the author writes a (often funny) thank you note each day.  They are often entertaining and while they are sometimes sarcastic, I am reminded how many things I have to be thankful and it inspires me to write more thank you notes… which leads me to tomorrow’s blissfix entry.

February 9, 2011 at 6:14 am 1 comment

The Happiness Project

I haven’t read the book, but the website is awesome and full of BLISSSfix remedies!

February 1, 2011 at 9:15 pm Leave a comment

BLISSfix recommends Yoga Today

Strangely enough, I haven’t had any clear-cut ‘Wins’ to blog about with my recent challenge.  I’ve been busy and it has been difficult to take the time to breathe, check in, listen for an answer and then take a new direction.  However, I can report this semi-related win.

Today I checked in, realized that my body wanted some stretching.  To warm up I took RiRa, my fluffy white pooch, for a walk.  Then I came back and danced to some Dance Central on Xbox Kinnect, and then I did a heart opening yoga exercise from the Yoga Today podcast.  (search for it in iTunes).

Yoga Today ( is an awesome website.  Each week they offer a free full length class to watch where ever your computer and internet are available.  You can also browse their blog for shorter classes and quick yoga tips.  Most of the classes are performed in nature in beautiful spaces like Jackson Hole, Wy with the Grand Tetons in the background or in Sedona, AZ surrounded by red rocks.  One episode I saw had elk grazing in the background!  Too cool!  It’s wonderful that they offer so much for free, but they also have a very reasonable price on their year-round membership and downloads.  For less than a 1/3 of attending a class in person, you can download a video to keep.  And for less than a month’s membership at a local studio, you can watch as much as you want for a year.  I highly recommend checking this out and if you fall in love with it, you can show them a supportive thank you by signing up and becoming a yoga god or goddess!

January 23, 2011 at 8:58 pm 1 comment


GOOP.comTonight, while snooping around on the internet for some ‘cleanse friendly’ recipes, I discovered GOOP!  It’s an internet newsletter published by Gwyneth Paltrow, someone who has also experienced the cleanse I just started.  (More on that later, once I get to the BLISS part of it).

I’d love to write more about this, but tonight the words just aren’t flowing.  Please just snoop around GOOP for yourself… there’s something delightful for everyone.  Thank you, Gwyneth!

October 13, 2009 at 1:33 am Leave a comment

BLISSfix recommends Dr. Zimmerman’s Tips

I don’t usually read forwards… but this one caught my attention.  It reminds me of Baz Lurhmans Speach Song from the late 90s.  Sometimes it’s just nice to have a little reminder about the things that tend to lead to a happy and fulfilling life.  Below I have included my favorites from his list of 50 Tips.  Most of them were favorites!  Enjoy!

Find more of Dr. Zimmerman’s tips at :



1. Simplify. Simplify. Simplify.

2. Get a place for everything, and put everything in its place.

3. Have backups: an extra car key in your wallet, an extra house key buried in the garden, extra stamps in the car, whatever will lower your stress.

4. Surround yourself with what you love … whether it’s pets, plants, music, hobbies, or keepsakes. Make your home your refuge.

5. Enjoy the simple things.

6. Take one day at a time.

7. Slow down. (Heather’s motto: “I’m always in the perfect place at the perfect time!”)

8. Allow extra time to do things and to get to places.

9. Spread big changes and difficult projects over time. Don’t lump all the hard things together.


10. Eat right.

11. Go to bed on time. Get enough rest.

12. Get up on time. Start your day with calmness.

13. Drive carefully. Cars aren’t the only things that can be recalled by their maker.

14. Cherish your health. If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.

15. Don’t wait for 6 strong men to take you to church.


16. Laugh. And then laugh some more — even if you have to fake it til you make it.

17. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.

18. Do something for the kid in you every day.

19. Smile. Peace starts with a smile.

20. Accept that some days you’re the pigeon, and some days you’re the statue.

21. Do what is right. Forbidden fruits create jams.

22. Don’t let your worries get the best of you. Remember, Moses started out as a basket case.

23. Let the tears come. Endure, grieve, and move on. Be ALIVE while you are alive.

25. Don’t forget … birthdays are good for you. The more you have, the longer you live.


26. Talk less. Listen more.

27. Tell your loved ones … that you love them … at every opportunity.

28. Keep your words soft and sweet, just in case you have to eat them.

29. Be kind to unkind people. They probably need it the most. And if you can’t be kind, at least have the decency to be vague.

30. Don’t put both feet in your mouth at the same time, because then you won’t have a leg to stand on.

32. Forgive. Most people are doing the best they can with what they have.


33. Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down.

34. Build memories. Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away.

35. Learn to get along … just like crayons. Some are sharp. Some are pretty, and some are dull. Some have weird names, and all are different colors. But they all have to live in the same box.

36. Let go of grudges. If you lend someone $20 and never see that person again, it was probably worth it.

37. Refrain from judgment.

39. Take time … every day … to be alone … and relish the power of peace and quiet.

40. Listen to a motivational CD while you’re driving … a CD that will improve your quality of life.

41. Write down every great thought that comes to you. Chances are you won’t remember them, and it may take you another 20 years to learn the lesson you just lost.

42. Keep a folder of your favorite sayings on hand.

43. Write down one thing you’re grateful for. And then add one more thing to your list each and every day.

44. Make a list of what you want to do, have, experience, and witness before you die. It’s a sure way to get a lot more of what you want in your life!

45. Strive for excellence. It is not necessary to be perfect. Excellence will do just fine!

46. Walk your talk. It is easier to preach ten sermons than it is to live one.

47. Remember, when you get to your wit’s end, you’ll find God lives there.

48. Pray. Then take some time to listen. Many folks want to serve God, but only as advisors.

50. Remember … the Will of God never takes you to where the Grace of God will not protect you.


Circle three tips that you will focus on this week, and then consciously

follow those tips for the next seven days. Let them become a habit in

your life.

Make it a great week!

Dr. Alan Zimmerman

August 1, 2009 at 6:02 pm 1 comment

BLISSfix loves “The Four Agreements” by Don Miguel Ruiz

5113EKMQHKL._SS500_Yesterday, as Sean and I took in some of the most beautiful scenery on highway 40 winding through Colorado, we listened to the Unabridged Audiobook of “The Four Agreements” by Don Miguel Ruiz, read by Peter Coyote.  As usual the words were exactly what I was wanting and needing to hear.  I had been entreating God/the Universe to help me recommit to all that I had learned and resonated with in the book “NonViolent Communication” by Marshal Rosenburg and here came this book completely in alignment with all the NVC teachings.  The book contains wisdom from biblical references as well as ancient Toltec (Native American) traditions.  Below I state the agreements I have made with myself based on the four in the book.

Agreement 1. Be Impeccable with My Word. I commit to speak with integrity, being careful to use my word only for the upliftment of myself and others through truth and love.

Agreement 2.  Be Immune to the Opinions and Actions of Others. (This one I have altered slightly from the version of the book because I choose to speak in positives) I acknowledge that the words and actions of others are from their perception of reality and have nothing to do with me as an individual.  I allow them their opinion and process and compassionately related to their human needs.  I powerfully select what I choose to believe for myself even when others are expressing beliefs I would prefer to release.  I am in control of what I choose to believe.

Agreement 3.  Ask Compassionate Questions and Compassionately Speak my Truth. (This one I have altered slightly from the version of the book because I choose to speak in positives) I honor my intuition and at the same time I seek total understanding of others needs through asking compassionate questions.  I honor myself by asking myself compassionate questions about my true feelings, needs and desires.  Once I am clear on my needs and wants, I confidently, consciously and compassionately express my truth and make requests to get my needs met.

Agreement 4.  I always do my Best! (This one I have altered slightly from the version of the book because I wanted to claim it for myself) My best is different in any given moment… for instance, my best when I’m just coming off a spiritual retreat compared to my best after a long day of challenging work will be different.  I accept myself at all times and at all stages and simply commit to doing my best at any given moment.  If I catch myself ‘shaming’ myself for not being better, I will stop, and simply remind myself that under the circumstances, that was my best, and in this consciousness, I have the ability to change now and start anew.  I embrace myself reminding myself that it is ok to make mistakes and it is joyful to consciously overcome them.

I’m so grateful for having found this book.  I bought it many years ago and accidentally listened to a brief excerpt while working out the other morning.  I knew immediately that it resonated now more than ever before and the timing of rediscovering it was perfect.   Enjoy the following links and a video that contains images similar to the ones we witnessed yesterday while driving and words from the book.

Sites related to The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz:

July 13, 2009 at 5:21 pm 1 comment

BLISSfix LOVES Financial Independence!!!

Picture 1

I’m loving this site! It’s based on the teachings of the book “Your Money or Your Life” by Joe Domingez & Vicki Robin.  The book is great, however from this site I was able to read the downloadable instructions and complete the exercises in 8 short hours (much shorter than reading the book, just as effective and FREE!!! – hello!) and I feel much more in control of my finances because of it.  If you’re curious about the book, there’s an excellent site related to the new release of the book that is helpful with summaries and great info… (you’ll recognize the site design!)  Enjoy the independence and the mind shift that come with it!

June 4, 2009 at 7:08 pm Leave a comment

Older Posts